Differences in the interpretation of the word “marriage” and varying mental definitions held by partners are among the leading causes of major marital conflicts. Drawing from his experience treating over a thousand couples, Dr Hassan Farhangi asserts that the specialised Word Therapy approach can align partners’ perspectives and foster deep, lasting mutual understanding. This unique methodology has demonstrated exceptional effectiveness in resolving dysfunctional behaviours and healing damaged relationships. Dr Farhangi authored the book “Don’t Eat Your Partner” specifically to guide and support couples through this transformational recovery process.
1. Aligning Mental Interpretations of ‘Marriage’:
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Divergent Definitions: Partners often enter marriage with conflicting definitions of key terms such as commitment, support, boundaries, and affection.
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Word Therapy Solution: Clarifying and redefining essential relational vocabulary to establish a shared language and common understanding.
2. Modifying Dysfunctional Relationship Behaviours:
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Behavioural Root Cause: Maladaptive behaviours and defensive reactions frequently stem from verbal misinterpretations and unexpressed emotional friction.
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Techniques: Replacing destructive communication patterns with constructive language and applying targeted exercises from Don’t Eat Your Partner to prevent emotional harm within the relationship.
3. Bridging Perspectives and Restoring Intimacy:
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Fostering Empathy: Shifting internal and external dialogue away from conflictual positioning toward collaborative partnership.
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Therapeutic Outcomes: Rebuilding trust, reviving intimacy, and achieving sustainable harmony within the relationship.